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When a Cat Dies

When a Cat Dies

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If you’ve lost your cat—whether recently or years ago—and their absence is still felt throughout your home…

This was written for that place. For the empty spaces, the missing routines, and all the small moments when you still expect them to be there.

No timelines. No pressure to “move on.”
Just something steady to hold onto when a relationship that was woven into everyday life is suddenly gone.

The bond with a cat can be quiet, deeply personal, and difficult for others to fully understand. Their presence becomes part of the rhythm of home—the places they slept, the sounds they made, the ways they found you, followed you, or simply stayed nearby.

When they’re gone, that absence can be enormous.

Inside, you’ll find presence, validation, and language for a grief that doesn’t need to be minimized or explained.

You can open it anywhere, read a few lines, or close it again. There is no right way to use it.

You don’t have to justify how much this loss matters.

If you’re looking for something steady to return to when you miss them, this book was made for that.

Inside, you’ll find something that is:
• Gentle and grounded
• Written from lived experience
• Meant to be read slowly or in fragments

And intentionally not:
• Clinical
• Prescriptive
• Focused on “moving on”

This book is part of the Always Here grief companion series.

This book is fully written by the author and can be used entirely on its own.

Some readers choose to use optional AI-supported companion prompts alongside it for additional reflection. These are not required in any way, just an added layer of support if you want it.

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Written by Jesse Kuhn, author of the Always Here grief series.

Author: Jesse Kuhn
Series: Always Here (Book 3 of 7)
Audience: Cat owners grieving the loss of a deeply loved companion
Length: 167 pages
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Torchbearer Press
Release Date: August 2025
ISBN: 978-1-971789-01-9

Written for those navigating the loss of a cat, this book stays with the quiet presence they leave behind.

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Marilyn Schleis

Nicely written book. Felt like the author was in my head, thoughts and feelings. I washed my windows and let nose prints from my 2 cats there so I can still feel them with me. 🩷

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Rich Curry

Excellent!! Excellent!!. When my Cat Elsa went to sleep,I was broken hearted and very depressed. I saw the book and it’s been helping me, Since July, it will make you cry, laugh but you will feel a calmness come over you when you need it.. buy it. Rich

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Jenifer Burkett

I read this book at random pages...not from the beginning to the end as you would read a book normally. I pick up the book everyday when I'm feeling very sad about losing my cat Libby. I keep it on my coffee table where I spend my evenings. Thank you for this beautiful writing. It helps me go through grief...

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Susan Stauffer

Love it, reading helps with my anxiety and depression since losing my Gray 03/23/26.

Thank you so much

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Julie Loera

This book was so comforting to me just knowing someone knows my pain and is praying for me.I highly recommend this book to anyone grieving the loss of their beloved soul kitty.

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Jeanne

This book really helped me with the grief of my dear buddy's passing. I'd open it randomly and read, and every time the text was spot on for what I was feeling. Deep insights, practical suggestions, and most of all understanding about how hard it is to lose a member of the family. I did not use AI prompts but wasn't opposed to doing that, actually the writing was all I needed. The worst part of grieving is over now, but I still cry on some days, then open the book and read, for myself and to remember my buddy. Thank you so much, Jesse. You get it and you know, and you help.

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Joan

Losing fur baby is especially hard. Nice to have some comfort from the book

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Gail Allen

My favorite cat ever died 2yrs ago and I’m still so sad about it. I hope this book will help

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Anonymous

I bought it for a friend. Wish I would have had it when I lost my Tiger.

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Joanne

Very touching and real description of the grief felt by those missing a deeply loved cat. It is really something I needed.

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Janet

Made ne love my cat more ❤️

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Harmony

So wonderful 💖 thank you 💓

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V. Eicke

I just recently lost my 19 year old cat, and reading this book has helped me to deal with my loss.

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Rebecca Blanke

I loved it! I am still grieving my 19 year old kitty from 2 years ago. This book really helped me!

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Rebecca

I love this book in memory to my Pharaoh- I still miss him!

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Elmer Jones

Very well written and helpful

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Anonymous

This book was wonderful. I just had my cat put down and this book has brought me a comfort and much understanding of why I feel the way I do

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Yolanda Jones

I had a baby black cat maybe 2 months old until 19 years and a few months at which time his health quickly went downhill.
We had to put him down which was so hard. My daughter and I still talk about him every day.
He left his pawprint on our hearts.
Miss him badly.
This book helps.
I haven't hasmuch time to get through it all but I love it so far.
My heart, my Ash, is still here. I can feel him at times and I love it.
Thanks for the book.
It's very inspiring.

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Peggy

Thought this was just a regular book but its AI incorporated … which I dont like … like really , cant we hv just regular books now ?? Does AI hv to infuse in EVERYTHING ??? What a waste of money …

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Anonymous

A lovely book and guide to help us cope with the grief.

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Vicki Janes

I loved the book and of course it made me cry.

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Tamara McG

What a nice booklet. Very well put together and a lot of the writings really hit home. Thank you for offering this product

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Donna Evans

This book brought me so much peace. Thank you.

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Christine Kawski

I am still reading a little bit as one by one at time. Thank you

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Audrey Thomas

This is a great book. I find it so comforting after the loss of my beautiful fur baby. It’s so inspirational with helping you to get through the loss.

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Shawn

Amazing customer service. Beautiful book.

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Alice G. -Verified customer review
Helped me through a tough time

This book doesn't try to rush you through anything or tell you to get over it. It just sits with you, if that makes sense. The short chapters were perfect because I couldn't really focus on long readings anyway. There's something about the way its written that feels like talking to someone who actually gets it. I used one of the little rituals when I finally cleaned out his favorite sleeping spot, and it helped more than I expected.
The bonus journal thing was nice too - I wasn't sure I'd use it but ended up writing down some of my favorite Max memories. It felt good to put those somewhere safe. This book won't fix the sadness, but it made me feel less alone with it. Sometimes thats enough.

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Janet M. -Verified customer review
ai assisted grief processing

This was a warm personal memoir about grieving a cat. Having had mine for over 2 decades, I can truly relate to this experience. Though ai was not a possibility back ten, I do believe it can be helpful today in processing grief and associated loneliness. You may have to open your mind for this touching account to sink in, but I believe in our current times, the author's methods of grief processing are worth a look.

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Arunava C. -Verified customer review
Tender, Healing, and Deeply Comforting

Always Here — When a Cat Dies is a beautifully written guide for anyone mourning the loss of a feline companion. With heartfelt reflections, soothing prompts, and gentle rituals, it offers a safe space to grieve and remember the quiet love that lingers long after goodbye. What makes this book especially unique is its integration of AI support, providing comfort and companionship through moments of loneliness. Thoughtful, poetic, and deeply empathetic, this book reminds readers that love never fades , it simply changes form. A must-read for every cat lover navigating loss.

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Benjamin A. -Verified customer review
A nice read I recommend

Losing a cat is a heartbreak that’s hard to put into words, and this book felt like a warm hand to hold through the pain. I appreciated the simple prompts and reflections. They were short enough that I could sit with them even when my mind felt too clouded to focus, yet meaningful enough to spark real moments of comfort. It almost felt like the author anticipated what grief takes out of you. It reminded me that love doesn’t end, and though the silence is hard, my cat is still with me in so many ways.

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